install-buildtools: support buildtools-make-tarball and update to 4.1

Support installing buildtools-make-tarball that is built in version 4.1
and later for build hosts with a broken make version. Also update the
default version values to 4.1.

(From OE-Core rev: 5348a4999e19bcd002c7d4558067a38870e172d2)

Signed-off-by: Paul Eggleton <paul.eggleton@microsoft.com>
Signed-off-by: Ross Burton <ross.burton@arm.com>
Signed-off-by: Richard Purdie <richard.purdie@linuxfoundation.org>
(cherry picked from commit 5d539268d0c7b8fad1ba9352c7f2d4b81e78b75c)
Signed-off-by: Aleksandar Nikolic <aleksandar.nikolic@zeiss.com>
Signed-off-by: Steve Sakoman <steve@sakoman.com>